Hooking up is a whole lot of fun but there are a lot of people who just feel like they’re missing out on something. These are people who need a little bit more when it comes to sex and getting that with a stranger can be very difficult. These are people who need kink in their sex for them to be happy. It can be very difficult to simply ask someone you’ve never met before to really let the naughtiness out. That’s what leads to unsatisfying encounters and having to seek out many more of them than would otherwise be necessary to lose all of that pent up sexual energy.
The simple answer is just to talk about kink before you ever meet up with the other person. That’s a great idea, but the time isn’t always present to make it happen. If you’re just meeting online then heading out the door for a hookup, talking just isn’t in the cards. That’s why the best thing to do is find the lowest level of your kink that you can enjoy and just go for it. You’ll be shocked at how many of your hookup partners are into the same things that you are. Just give them a little introduction to it and they might just take it away. You’ll finally have that sexual encounter that touches on all of the bases and leaves you finally feeling nice and satisfied at the end of it all.